Learning To Live With Sudden Vision Loss

One phone call or one appointment can erase the life you were planning. I’m Tina, a transformational coach and emotional intelligence strategist, and I’m sharing the news that knocked the air out of me: I won’t be able to drive again, I won’t be able to work the way I used to, and my vision only reaches about eight feet. It’s a kind of loss that touches everything, from independence to identity, and I’m not going to dress it up with “perfect” positivity.

You’ll hear what it actually felt like in the moment the ground shifted, because my first reaction wasn’t brave. It was human. I cried in the doctor’s office with fear, frustration, grief, and anger all at once. I also talk about the complicated layer that made it hurt more: carrying hope for months, then learning the outcome had been known, and feeling the sting of betrayal. If you’ve ever had your life change overnight, you’ll recognize that mix of shock and disbelief.

From there, I walk through what I’m doing to cope in real time: leaning on emotional intelligence tools, learning what supports are available, and reminding myself that a new path is not just an ending, it’s something different. I also bring in the humor that’s getting me through low vision moments, because if I’m already bumping into walls, I’m allowed to laugh while I adjust.

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Transcript

A Hit I Never Expected

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Life hit me with a deeper and I didn't see it coming. Literally. Not the fun kind either. But even in the middle of it all, I'm still learning how to keep going, keep moving, keep pushing, keep pushing forward, and just keep laughing. If you're going through something heavy, stay

Meet Tina And The Mission

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with me. Welcome, welcome, welcome. This is Tina. I'm your transformational coach and emotional intelligence strategist. I'm here to help you break pattern. Welcome back. I'm glad that you're here.

Hearing I Cannot Drive Again

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This week brought me some news I never expected. I found out that I won't be able to drive again. I won't be able to work the way I used to be for either. And my vision topped out at 8 feet, which is great if everything I need is just eight feet away. Oh, it's not a lot, and I'm not going to pretend that it hasn't been.

Grief And A Very Human Reaction

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When I first heard I felt like the ground shifted underneath me. I didn't have a brave reaction. I had a human one. I burst into tears at the doctor's office, full of fear, frustration, grief all at once, and anger and betrayal. And if you ever had your life change overnight, you know exactly what that feels like. But here's the thing. Even in the middle of this, I'm still here. I'm in shock and I'm shook, but I'm still here. Learning what tools I have, you know, available to use and realize that I am stronger than I thought. Starting to understand that a new path isn't just the end, it's just something that's different. And I wasn't planning

Betrayal After Three Months Hope

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for this. And I the betrayal comes from for three months, my eye doctor let me think that I had a chance and I had hope of recovering. And that's where the betrayal came because I found out that she had known the whole three months that this was going to be the case. And I guess the reasoning is because they want people to heal and focus on healing. Well, I just feel betrayed because I had all this hope in here this whole three months that I've been waiting, anticipating, and dreaming about driving again and making, you know, promises, like selling my soul, and that I would never take things for granted again. And I actually have had my faith necklace on, and right when I found out I just wanted to rip it off and I still still struggle

Finding Humor And Meaning

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with that. And listen, then if I'm going to bump into things, I might as well laugh about it because I already am bumping into things, walls, people, my bed, the side of the bed, just it's insane. And the other day I saw a tree and I thought it was a woman in a dress. I can't even drive anymore. But have you seen how people drive lately? You know, maybe it's just the universe trying to protect me. I do believe that everything happens for a reason. And I know that I'm being tested right now.